{"id":581,"date":"2016-02-04T08:46:44","date_gmt":"2016-02-04T08:46:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/weddingbranch.co.uk\/news\/?p=581"},"modified":"2016-01-25T08:49:25","modified_gmt":"2016-01-25T08:49:25","slug":"would-you-invite-your-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/weddingbranch.co.uk\/news\/would-you-invite-your-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Would you invite your ex?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Ex_Lovers_Lane_by_jeffrey\"<\/a><\/p>\n

Planning your wedding<\/a> guest list can be stressful enough, without the added dilemma of whether to invite your ex or not.<\/p>\n

A survey conducted states that two thirds of couples admitted that they would invite their ex to their wedding, with men being twice as likely to do so.<\/p>\n

With statistics showing that many people are getting married later in life, this means that they are more likely to have long-term ex-partners who they are still amicable with. If you\u2019re thinking about inviting your ex, take these pointers into account before popping the question!<\/p>\n

Be sensitive<\/p>\n

Ask yourself why specifically you want that person at your wedding. Often people invite exes because they are part of a friendship network and if everyone else is going then why not invite them? It is not unusual to stay good friends with an ex-partner, and inviting people to your wedding<\/a> is a lovely gesture!<\/p>\n

Honestly is the best policy<\/p>\n

Being completely honest with your other half is important from the very beginning, and the sooner you approach the subject, the better. Make him feel completely comfortable, and ensure that you aren\u2019t demanding your ex has to come, but rather asking if he would be happy with the idea. An ex might feel snubbed if they\u2019re not invited, but in some cases, people may not have been invited to spare their feelings.<\/p>\n

Think sensibly<\/p>\n

Make sure you think about how you and your ex ended, was it friendly? Was it recent? Worst case scenario is your ex ruining your big day by drinking far too much and saying something offensive. People should only invite people to weddings if they think that person will be a positive presence at the wedding.<\/p>\n

Your husband-to-be<\/p>\n

There is a chance that your h2b will say no. It is as much your day as his, so it is only fair that you take his feelings into consideration! After all, your ex is an ex for a reason. Every case is individual, sometimes we have enough trouble when the couples\u2019 parents are divorced or remarried without the added pressure of exes being invited too! As long as the couple have discussed it and have both agreed that they are comfortable with it, then there is no problem!<\/p>\n

Dos and Don\u2019ts<\/p>\n

Do invite your ex with a guest
\nDon\u2019t spend a long time chatting with your ex
\nDo sit your ex with people he or she gets on with
\nDon\u2019t dance with your ex
\nDo take control of the situation and keep your h2b as busy as possible!
\nDon\u2019t introduce them to people as your \u2018ex\u2019<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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