Before you jump straight in and ask your closest friends to do the honours, check they don\u2019t fall into one of these dreaded categories\u2026<\/p>\n
The drama queen<\/p>\n
We all know this girl and she\u2019s definitely not bridesmaid material! Not only does she love herself way too much but she constantly needs to shine in the spotlight. If you think she\u2019ll change for your wedding, think again.<\/p>\n
The worst part is that she\u2019s almost certainly expecting to be asked, so make sure you find a different way of keeping her busy on the day.<\/p>\n
The unhappy singleton<\/p>\n
While most of your friends will be happy for you, it won\u2019t be surprising if one of your single friends isn\u2019t ecstatic at the news. Weddings<\/a> can be depressing for people who aren\u2019t loved up, so steer clear of asking the jealous, single friend to be your bridesmaid.<\/p>\n Not only will it make her more upset about her own situation, but she\u2019ll probably cause unnecessary drama for everyone with her bitter attitude. Your bridesmaids need to be happy for you and excited to be part of your day, not a burden on the whole party.<\/p>\n The party animal<\/p>\n She might be one of your closest mates and have amazing planning skills but it\u2019s really important to consider what your party animal friend be like on the big day, too. If she can\u2019t hold her drink, loves dancing on table tops and will inevitably tell everyone your secrets and embarrassing stories, then she\u2019s probably not the best girl for the job.<\/p>\n If you still want her to be part of the wedding, tell her your concerns. Her reaction will give you a good indication as to whether she deserves to be your bridesmaid!<\/p>\n The obsessive organiser<\/p>\n Unless you\u2019re completely clueless about planning your wedding, don\u2019t ask your obsessive friend to take the bridesmaid seat! She\u2019s sure to take all control and will ultimately create her ideal wedding, not yours.<\/p>\n Not everyone\u2019s 100% clear on what they want when they start planning<\/a> but you should never let someone talk you into something you\u2019re not entirely sure about.<\/p>\n The joker<\/p>\n While she\u2019s great on a night out, she probably isn\u2019t going to make the best bridesmaid. Not only will her jokes get old, but she probably won\u2019t be putting in the effort to help you with your plans.<\/p>\n There\u2019s definitely nothing worse than someone who won\u2019t take you seriously!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Before you jump straight in and ask your closest friends to do the honours, check they don\u2019t fall into one of these dreaded categories\u2026 The drama queen We all know this girl and she\u2019s definitely not bridesmaid material! Not only … Continue reading